Certified in Mediation — Now Offering Neutral Services
As of August 2025, I am now certified as a mediator through the National Association of Certified Mediators. This allows me to offer neutral mediation services through SDA Divorce Solutions. We now have mediation as an additional tool to help us achieve better results for our clients. At the same time, our focus remains on being a financial advocate for individuals who often need strong financial support during divorce.
Why I Pursued Certification
Over the years, I have helped many people navigate the divorce process. I have seen firsthand that organized, respectful approaches lead to better outcomes than rushing into litigation, although it is sometimes unavoidable.
I became certified not just to expand our services but to gain a deeper understanding of what clients experience during mediation. I wanted to learn what happens in those sessions, what tools are used, and how I can better support people.
What the Training Gave Me
The certification included 40 hours of hands-on training in conflict resolution, active listening, ethical neutrality, structured communication, and real-world situations. It’s more than just theory — it changes how you handle difficult conversations in both professional and personal settings.
Paired with my training and experience as a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), this certification enhances my ability to assist clients in navigating complex divorce decisions, especially when financial stability and emotional dynamics are deeply intertwined.
Beyond Divorce: Wealth, Parenting, and Real Life
The skills I gained have made me a more thoughtful communicator and coach — especially in emotionally charged conversations. Personally, they’ve encouraged me to reflect more intentionally on how I present myself as a parent and how I manage conflict overall.
Why Mediation Matters — More Than Just an Option
Mediation isn’t a one‑size‑fits‑all solution and can often be misunderstood.
There are different ways to conduct mediation — sometimes it involves only the parties and a mediator, while other times it might include lawyers or additional professionals. It can be done in person or virtually. What matters is that it provides people with structure, a voice, and the opportunity to influence the outcome.
Many believe that hiring a lawyer means mediation isn’t an option — or that mediation requires giving something up. That’s not true. Whether serving as a neutral or an advocate, I aim to support a process that reduces conflict, clarifies issues, and encourages better long-term results.
When Mediation Works Well, Outcomes Can Include:
- Greater clarity
- Reduced legal expenses
- A voice in shaping parenting plans and agreements
- More mutual decisions that last
- Less emotional toll during and after divorce
Looking Forward
I view mediation as a means to reduce conflict, enhance understanding, and achieve better outcomes — not just now, but also in the future.
Whether you’re dealing with divorce or simply trying to communicate more effectively, mediation can be a valuable tool.
